I don't know enough about your world to understand, exactly, what it is the two of you went through, and I don't - I don't know enough about your time together to conclusively guess at his motivations, and I don't-- I don't know what the two of you said, as he left. What your last words to each other were. But.
It sounds-- defeatist. I think. To assume he never loved you, or to assume his departure was an "ending". If he's putting you aside for something bigger than the both of you - you're allowed to feel shaken by that, but it says nothing about what you "deserve" if he has to go. All it says is that... that he has to do whatever it is you encouraged him to do. On his own, as a man.
Did he say... things were over between the both of you? For good?
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I don't know enough about your world to understand, exactly, what it is the two of you went through, and I don't - I don't know enough about your time together to conclusively guess at his motivations, and I don't-- I don't know what the two of you said, as he left. What your last words to each other were. But.
It sounds-- defeatist. I think. To assume he never loved you, or to assume his departure was an "ending". If he's putting you aside for something bigger than the both of you - you're allowed to feel shaken by that, but it says nothing about what you "deserve" if he has to go. All it says is that... that he has to do whatever it is you encouraged him to do. On his own, as a man.
Did he say... things were over between the both of you? For good?